Who Are They

Hi everyone:
I have found in my life there are some people that are just down right not right for us. It is my opinion, if someone is not cheering you on and challenging you to be your best they are not the right people to be in your life. Les Brown says, " You can go a lot farther with someone running with you then you can with someone jumping on your back for a ride." So true. I think we all have people in our life's like that at one point or another. The question is what do we do about it? If it is a family member how do we deal with that. I think the best thing to do is work on ourselves. I tell my clients that we can't help what other do or say. But we can help how it impacts us emotionally. If we have negative people around us sooner or later it is going to affect us if we are not doing something to counter act the negative talk. The negative talk of others becomes our own negative self talk. This can put up super sized road blocks for us to be able to be successful or just plain grow. I personally try to stay away from these kind of people, however sometimes that can be a difficult thing to do. I say counter the negative with the positive. If you are doing some of the exercises I have written in my blog I would like to know how this is working for you. We can make our own reality. You have the power. Remember that. Just ask yourself. Are these people inspiring you, are they encouraging

you to be the best you can be? Just food for thought.
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